I hope you can feel my heart in every word, and at the end you will know just how “worth it” you are <3!
Many times in our relationships we wait for the man to make the decisions that are best for our hearts, even when the relationship is no longer adding any value. We put ourselves on the back burner, and endure emotional exhaustion all in the name of love (let’s be real). I know I’ve been there… more than once! Listen, when you’ve invested so much time and energy, it’s much “easier” to ignore the signs and keep things together. Especially when you are holding onto the possibility of what could change if you stay, or feeding the fear of what may happen if you let go and move on.
Relationships have their ups and downs. We are flawed and so we do make mistakes. However, if you find yourself in an intentionally hurtful (or destructive) relationship that no longer adds value, it’s important to remember that you hold the key to turn things around. No, you can’t change a man’s heart (only God can do that), but you can decide what’s best for your life going forward.
Ladies, YOU HAVE A CHOICE.
A choice regarding what’s best for your well-being, your walk with God, emotional health, and peace of mind. Remember, you don’t have to wait for your man to finally make up his mind about what’s best for you, especially when you already know what needs to be done. You can make that decision for yourself. You cannot change a man’s character, so when he shows you who he is, you have to be strong enough to believe it. God is the ultimate love in your life. And as a woman of God, you have a heavenly Father who wants you to be whole… not broken, bruised and tossed to the side.
When we as women have a firm understanding of who we are in Christ, and that we are worthy and deserving of that very intentional and certain “I only want you” type of love, we can make the decisions that are best for our hearts.
I’ve been hurt, abused and used. And once I realized that I was worth so much more than being treated like an option, I decided to move on without turning back. I had no clue that the most wonderful man would be on the other side of that decision, waiting to love all of me and make me his one and only! God is too good!
Every story is different. Just know that drama-free love between two honest and committed individuals is a beautiful blessing, and is absolutely possible.
You don’t have to SETTLE.
You don’t have to be just an OPTION any longer!
You are destined to be someone’s one and only, and you have every right to decide who’s efforts to entertain. So don’t believe the lie any longer. You do have a choice, and you are worth it! You, are more than enough ❤