💞Hey momma! Girl, I see you, and I get it! You’re literally trying to do a million and one things, and always seem to come up short… almost like your efforts are in vain! Yes, I know… I see the tears forming! And guess what… it’s okay to cry!
Release it honey, like I said I get it! From trying to find balance in your home, to keeping your children and husband cared for, to keeping up with the demands of your business… oh and let’s not forget trying to get rid of those last few pregnancy lbs… its all just so much!
And that’s just the tip of the iceberg!
Well I’ve been where you are and after literally crying my eyes out trying to piece it all together… ASKING GOD “WHY IS THIS SO HARDDDDDDD”😭😭😭😭 I’m so grateful to say that I’ve cracked the code on how to
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🙋🏾♀️all while Manifesting overflow and results in every area of your life!
From your influence in your home, to the impact & income in your business… Yes, you can have it all momma… and I have the secret sauce!
And even more importantly 🗣🗣🗣You Deserve it! (Wooo, yea… SAY THAT 5 times to yourself without crying!!!)
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If you’ve been following me, especially on Instagram, then you know my thoughts on what it’s taking for me to find harmony as a mompreneur! It’s been a major adjustment!
Even before COVID, I knew that God was calling me to shift the way I serve! But it wasn’t immediately clear to me. I struggled with the idea of being a whole mom While also building a thriving business! This is still new to me! – That feeling kept me stuck, until I had a real heart to heart with God!
“Okay, God… you’ve given me these gifts, show me how to use them! You know I love empowering women… how can I do that AND raise a family… is it even possible”?
Y’all I was a snotty mess, but God is faithful!
That’s when my growth mindset kicked in! I got out of my own way, relaunched Own Your Slay University , and reworked my signature program… VIDEO BOOTCAMP! It’s amazing how clear things get when you surrender (recurring lesson for me)!
While I don’t have all the answers for finding harmony as a mompreneur(still figuring that out as I go)… what I do have is a SOLUTION for moms who are ready to shift, and transform the way they show up for themselves and their platforms using the power of video!
Tell you more? Gladly!
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Build and sustain a compelling and influential platform, producing irresistible content using my Unique Content CreationSystem! I give you the strategies so you can stop wasting your energy, and spend more time with family and loved ones!
Cultivate community! Attracting those that God has assigned to you! Moving from a few likes and views… to loyal and committed supporters who engage and grow with you!
I know the power of video, and I am one of the best when it comes to showing up, confidently and with conviction on camera! I know the recipe for captivating an audience using my God given gifts, and my assignment is to help you do the very same!
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It took me a little under a month to complete my vision board! Here’s why along with 3 takeaways that will help you SLAY your goals in 2020!
1￼. I had to be Intentional
One of the main themes in my life is to “Be Intentional”. My first attempt at a vision board years ago, didn’t go so well. I was a bit all over the place. I literally grabbed a couple of magazines, and started cutting and pasting pretty images with no real vision. To be honest, I was more concerned with making sure my board looked good, over making sure I picked images and words that were intentional and spoke directly to who God created me to be/what I wanted to manifest in my life. I know better now! I took the time to write out exactly what I was expecting God to do in my life, and this time around I found the images and words that aligned with this vision. Not only did I picked the bold, aesthetically appealing images, I chose them with purpose!
Takeaway: Write the vision, Make it plain… then find the images that are in alignment! Be intentional!
2. I wanted to make sure my goals were Actionable and Measurable.
Another things that was a complete shift this year, I made each goal actionable and measurable (Hello S.M.A.R.T planning). Where I once used to put everything on one big board, I actually used the last few pages of my 2020 planner*. I created what I am going to call vision pages! I broke down my vision for 2020 into 5 specific areas of my life; Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness and Business. And on each of those pages I focused on what I wanted to manifest! So my “Blog monthly” from 2019, turned into “Post 3x to blog monthly before the last day of that month”. And my very general “Workout” turned into the page you see in the featured image; complete with health and wellness goals and a mindset/affirmation to bring it all together. And Now when I check in at the end of each month, I’m very clear on where I hit the mark, and where I need to adjust!
Takeaway: Set actionable goals that you can measure! Check in monthly/quarterly, and adjust as needed!
3. I took the time to write out my Prayer requests in the form of praise reports!
This is not a new practice for me, but it is SOOOOO worth sharing! I am a writer (obvi) and for the past few years I’ve been very intentional about writing out specific prayer requests in the form of praise reports**! This started the year before I met my husband! I note this because in January of 2013 I wrote:
“Thank you, Lord for introducing me to my husband. I thank you for making me whole, and allowing me to experience real love from a man who loves and honors you”!
February 2013, I started dating Keem!
Now don’t get it twisted this is not a magical formula, nor is this a how to get a husband post. The key is how we frame our requests. If you look at what I wrote, I understood that I needed to be “whole” and complete in Him, before meeting the one! I took my eyes off of what I wanted and set my intention on what I needed… for God to work on me! Sometimes our prayers are so one sided, we forget to include the work we need to do! (Reference Psalm 37:4)
Framing our requests to God in the form of a declaration and praise is a game changer. Don’t get my wrong, there is totally a place for those broken moments when we lay it all at the feet of Jesus and know that only His strength can carry us. Listen, I have those meltdown moments in the presence of my Savior, too. (Oh, He is The Good Good Father and cares about EVERY SINGLE TEAR)! And I’m so thankful that He also responds to our faith as we declare His word over our lives, and shows Himself FAITHFUL every single time!
Takeaway: Fuel your prayers with faith. Give God praise in advance for what He is doing/going to manifest in your life, and watch God work out the details! Move as He directs! Delayed obedience could delay your promise!
*Shout out Patrice Washington, who inspired my idea when she mentioned her “Dream Journal”.
** Shout Out to my sister, Chris for this best practice!
ICYMI : I released and re-released the #Snatched FOR HIS GLORY tees on my online store, Fierce & Refined Boutique! Yaaaaaassss🔥🔥🔥 Today is the FINAL DAY to pre-order, and I don’t want you to miss out! Also enjoy free shipping site wide with code “#snatched”.
Both styles of the #Snatched tees are ONLY AVAILABLE DURING pre-order!
So don’t delay + check out a quick video of how I style it!🔥🔥🔥