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When Bae Doesn’t Text (Right) Back

I used to get so upset when my hubby didn’t text me during the day, or if he took hours before responding!  I mean come on.  It’s me, wifey! Then we had a conversation, and he had to remind me of something we discussed during our pre-marital counselling. He reminded me that the only reason he isn’t able to be as attentive to his phone at work, is because he’s working. He’s working for our now, for our future… for me. And to top it all off he began to tell me of how the past few weeks have been very busy and profitable for him (for us). Well, you already know that shut me right up. And I had to apologize for losing perspective. I know my man loves me <3! I was just being spoiled, and had the nerve to get mad at him,  as if he doesn’t do everything in his power to make my life amazing! Forgive me, Father!  I’m not perfect, but I’m now more aware of this during the work day. I’ve even started sending him prayers, or fabulous selfies…lol.

 Ladies take a moment and consider your ways. If you know your husband loves you and his steps are ordered by the Lord,  rethink that angry text with the side-eye. Especially if he is at work, or on assignment. Instead, send a text/voicemail of love and encouragement. Pray over him, and send a word of life. You never know what he’s facing at that very moment, and your words can change his whole course of action!  

Remember,  you and your hubby are one.

When he wins, you both win <3!

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  1. That’s so very tue! I don’t have a hubby (yet) lol but I know that feeling of being so spoiled with love and affection we can often forget that it exist without a text or phone call. Love can be displayed in many different ways and when your man is “on assignment” (yes, I love that!) that’s his was of displaying his love!

    1. Oh, absolutely! Love it! Thanks for the support, girlfriend! And speaking of “hubby”… 😊😉

  2. Love this! I am like that too when I don’t get timely responses… It’s hard to keep in mind the big picture all the time. Thanks for sharing!

    1. So true! Thanks for reading… So glad you loved it xxoo!

  3. Bisea Pratt says:

    Good Stuff!!!😘

    1. Thank you, Bisea! 🎉😘

  4. Nice piece😉

    1. Thank you! 😊

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